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talesofthesevenseas

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A Request from your Moderator
« on: September 23, 2013, 10:51:40 pm »
My dears,

I have fought with myself about if I should say something to all of you or not, and think that the time has come.

I would like to ask that everyone put a little more effort into being kind and polite to others on this forum.
People come here seeking help and advice, not to be ridiculed or have a joke made at their expense. Let's show a little more compassion for beginners and expect a little more professionalism of ourselves.

Thanks gang. 
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Re: A Request from your Moderator
« Reply #1 on: September 24, 2013, 10:35:33 am »
Thank you for the reminder!  So great to have you on here and helping maintain this site!  You are greatly appreciated!!
I'm from the South - but please don't mistake my Southern Manners/Accent/Charm as a weakness!

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Re: A Request from your Moderator
« Reply #2 on: September 24, 2013, 12:42:43 pm »
YEAH! BE SWEET! A bit of humor or sharp debate is great however, when it crosses a certain threshold, no fun at all.

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Re: A Request from your Moderator
« Reply #3 on: September 24, 2013, 12:56:03 pm »
jacon is right--


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Re: A Request from your Moderator
« Reply #4 on: September 24, 2013, 04:21:13 pm »
Thanks guys, I really appreciate your help with this.
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Re: A Request from your Moderator
« Reply #5 on: September 24, 2013, 05:08:08 pm »
I am guessing there has been a recent incident/s that has caused this post.... Don't leave 'ol dad here in the dark, what happened?

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Re: A Request from your Moderator
« Reply #6 on: September 24, 2013, 05:19:29 pm »
Actually no one incident, just an on-going general deterioration of basic politeness over time. It's been eating away at me for months and it was time to unleash my inner Miss Manners and say something.
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Re: A Request from your Moderator
« Reply #7 on: September 24, 2013, 10:02:30 pm »
Fine ideas , all IMO , talesof (& everybody else) .

Kinda makes me think of a very early post from you (talesof) with the sheep image & the 'how do you like me now' caption  ;D ;D ;D !
 
I was an admin on a discussion board in the 90's (boy , things have changed since then) where we'd inserted a clause in the T.O.U. that pledged to be 'civil' with the penalty of gettin' tossed out on the ear , should one choose to not "recant/reform/repent/quit it" (etc) .

Glad you've posted about the potent issue & I'll try to do my best to not put on the Grumpy Boots (when posting , anyways) !

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Re: A Request from your Moderator
« Reply #8 on: September 27, 2013, 05:32:31 am »
Hear hear!
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Re: A Request from your Moderator
« Reply #9 on: September 27, 2013, 09:04:10 am »
 ;D ;D Like the tilted halos!
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Re: A Request from your Moderator
« Reply #10 on: September 28, 2013, 10:45:18 am »
Hello and best regards to everyone!
Thank you Moderator for your post. I have used this forum and found the people replying to me to be very helpful AND polite! Thank goodness there is a place to come back to because I have experienced major rudeness at other forums
I'm getting ready to post pictures and questions as I am prerparing to sell art and vintage/antique items. I am looking forward to your experts and their opinion!
Sincerely!
kdj