Yes, agree with Mart it can be a bit sticky getting started on any new social type site but, that is part of it. There is also an opportunity to make new online "friends". You have to expect a few bumps in the road as a newby ( email issues, rude people, posting photos, etc) on any site like this but, as stated above, you just iggy as many bumps as possible and move on, that's what I do. The world is not ALL a bowl of cherries, either online or in the "real" world.
Of the thousands of members over there, guessing hundreds that are regulars, without looking/checking I am guessing I have iggied 5 or 6 members, you ladies are blowing this out of proportion in my view.