I'm just going to chime in on the "Newbie" issue ... suggest that the "Newbie" forum-member title gets 86'ed , replace it with "New Member" to end the debate .
My bottom line on the other issues , where some folks have gotten a bit put-off by other members' posts/responses ...... well , ya' just can't control how someone else reacts (both sides of the coin) to what gets said here (or anywhere) .
Some here are light-hearted , light-headed (like me) , crusty , brittle , friendly , flinty & everything in between .... seems to me that almost every forum member is good-intentioned .
I just try to keep a sort of 'cowboy ethic' here (Can't we all just git along , little doggies ?) , but not always sucessfully .