"If I can`t afford to lose it,, I don`t list it. I just do small stuff. Its fun for me, not necessarily a money making thing."
Even if I can afford to lose a small amount it still riles me when I get ripped off and Ebay seem to be indifferent. I've been ripped off both as a buyer and a seller and came out worst off in both cases.
As a buyer I spotted something that I knew was easily worth between $200 - $300, bidded and was prepared to go up to at least $100. I was really chuffed when I won it for only $35 !!! I paid within minutes of end of auction and waited... and waited. After a couple of days of not hearing anything I e-mailed the seller... and waited... a week later got an e-mail apologising that they'd been away and would have the item in the post to me first thing Monday. I e-mailed 'Thank you' and waited and waited. Week later I e-mailed concerned that I'd not received anything, and as they lived only 10 miles away I was more than happy to collect in person and wouldn't even expect a refund on my p&p. Got a response saying they had been poorly and it would be in the post next day via recorded. I e-mailed them with a thanks, hope you're feeling better and asked if they could e-mail me the Tracking number so that I wouldn't have to trouble them again. I waited and waited.. You've got it, it never arrived and I never heard from them again. Eventually opened a claim against them through ebay, and finally got something in the region of 1/2 of what I paid refunded, Ebay taking the rest in charges!!! This was before they changed the system. The seller held onto the item which they'd sold for a price way under its value and I lost, as I see it, not $20 dollars but possibly as much as $260 as the item was legally mine and stolen from me.
As a seller I had an item up for grabs and made it quite clear in the posting that any buyers outside the UK should contact me first for a P&P quote, and the P&P given was only for 1st Class Recorded UK mainland. I had quite a few items ending on the same day and perhaps should have been a little more vigilant. the item sold (for a little less than I'd hoped for, but not much) the buyer paid immediately and I e-mailed thanking for prompt payment and guaranteed that the item would be in the post first thing next morning. Only then did I realise that the buyer was in India. I e-mailed them to say that they really should have contacted me first, but as a goodwill gesture I would send the item out at no extra cost. It actually cost me an extra £4 ($6) to post it recorded. Even at that the estimated delivery date was anything up to 28 days. I e-mailed the buyer and informed them of this. A weel later I got an e-mail saying it had not yet arrived ... and the following week another (ignoring my replies re length of delivery)... after a month I got another e-mail saying that it hadn't arrived. I tried to check with Royal Mail but they could only track the item within the UK, I had to try to find out what happened at the other end.
By this point I had complained to Ebay that the buyer was able to pay for the item + P&P when they had obviously invoiced the buyer and telling them to contact me re P&P. They denied all responsibility and said that it was up to me and I could have refunded the buyer's money!!! At this point it was too late, and I was advised to refund and await the results of the 'investigation' into the item by Royal Mail. I had and still have 100% feedback and didn't want to jeopardise that. I shall be cold in my grave before I hear anything re the item.... this was 18 months ago!!! So I lost the item and also roughly $10 in P&P. Do I believe the buyer? From his behaviour I hate to say that 'I don't'.
Ebay? Let's hope someone else comes up with some serious competition!!!!